My Life. Beautiful, Ugly, Unfiltered.
May 28, 2011Posted by on
I know I have mentioned (several times) my new found struggles with Astaire and her tantrums….but I have a happy update today! We are making some progress. I have found over the past several days and trips out, that if I set her up for what we are about to do, and clearly state my expectations, we are all much happier and she does so well!
An example of what I might say would go something like this as we are walking in to the store, church, or even a playdate:
“Astaire, we are going to go in to __________ now. Mama expects you to be a good girl, be obedient and (sit in the cart/go to your class and play with your friends/share your toys) without getting upset. If you don’t, you will get a time-out, do you understand? (she will say yes) You are such a big girl, and you are going to a great job!”
We go in, and sometimes she needs a little reminding—but a reminder is usually all she needs. We have had several successful trips this week, including one to the zoo! She did absolutely wonderful all day, with zero meltdowns and she even got to feed a giraffe right out of her hand….TWICE!